Here’s a ritual for starting over: Choose a few small symbols of your old life, as well as a few symbols of your new life. Find a patch of earth and dig a hole. Bury the symbols of your old life in the ground, saying “goodbye” over and over. Place the symbols of your new life on a shelf or another place where you will see them often and daily.
i got this from Holiday Mathis, whose horoscopes i read because they are often dead on.